I live in the hudson valley NY and my fiance's family has been visiting LBI for years for a family vacation. This past August I was invited on the yearly family vaca and I fell in love with the area. this is my second marriage and his first... I simply do not care for another big wedding... I want something intimate with just our imidiate families and our best friends... or maybe our closest family members... Any suggestions on small venues? Since I am approx 4 hours away I do not know where to even begin to make this dream a reality for us... Please help!