FI is at a bachelor party tonight, staying overnight. They are at Foxwoods Casino. That is not why I am bummed though. I'm sad because last night we got in a fight and he left still pissed at me and acting like a child about it. The fight was so dumb, and I admit I was wrong, but he was using my computer and he cliked OK for some permission that came up and it made my screen blink all weird casuing the device drivers to freeze for a second. When I asked him what he clicked he said he didn't know and just went on doing what he was doing, totally blowing me off. I know it's not a big deal, but it just annoyed me. So I said "don't you think you should ask me before just clicking things on my computer?" and of course he didn't like my attitude and snapped at me. This happened late at night, so we went to bed angry, didn't really talk all day today when he left for work, and then he called when he was on his way to the bachelor party.
He was so nasty on the phone. I said "please keep in touch," and he said "ok, I'm not going to sit on the phone all night." Uh, no sh!t, I don't expect you to be. Sometimes when he goes on these overnight trips they drink so much that he passes out and forgets to call and I worry about him all night into the next day when he wakes up. It's annoying and I don't think it's fair either. So I know he is gonna be an idiot tonight, probably not check in just to piss me off, and then I'll be brooding tomorrow.
I trust him too, it's not like he's out at strip clubs and stuff, and he likes to gamble and drink so I know he will be occupied, but I still don't like to be apart when we are fighting. I hate to think that he is mad at me, then once he gets drunk he'll either a) not call at all or b) call and pick a fight at like 1:00am.
I'm going to watch Hunger Games with my mom, so hopefully that will take my mind off things and it'll be nice to spend some quality time together, but I feel bad about how it all went down and I also am annoyed that he is dragging out being mad at me.
Do any of you have FI's who drag out dumb fights? He acts like such a child, who stays mad at someone all night/day because they said one thing with an attitude? I swear he does it just to annoy me more. Ughhh
Honeymoon Destination - Hawaii
