This might belong in etiquette but I'm not sure. Basically a friend of mine is insisting on throwing a Bridal Shower for me. Okay, I really don't want one but she's a good friend and I will let her have her fun with it. The problem is she sells Mary Kay and, as far as I can tell, is planning on ordering a lot of Mary Kay stuff, giving out makeovers, and basically trying to sell her mary kay using my wedding as a way to do that.
I don't want to be rude and tell her that we're just not going to do it, but I really don't have the time to plan this on top of the wedding. We're not having any bridesmaids or groomsmen, and despite this being her idea she's expecting me to plan it. I'm not sue what to tell her, or the easiest way to say "I really dont want you using my wedding as a chance to hawk your make up to my guests" without really saying that.
Any ideas? TIA