First off--to anyone who hasn't chosed their wedding party yet please take the advice that I didn't and don't choose them until at least 6 months out! You don't know how your relationships will change and some that may seem excited at first may slowly start to not care at all.
Out of 8 BM's I have 3 that are excited and supportive of me. I know that I can count on these girls and I should be lucky that I at least have them. Two are pretty wrapped in their own lives, but at least when I talk to them they sound excited.
The other three are hurting me and frustrating me beyond belief! The first of these is my MOH. She rarely replies to my texts and when one of my BM's realized that she wasn't going to be planning a bachelorette party she tried to step in and help, but she started ignoring her too! She also decided that she can't afford a dress so I offered to buy one for her even though it's going on a credit card because I can't afford it either, but anytime I send her a pic she ignores me! The second also decided that she can't afford a dress even though she still goes out a lot, so I bought her dress. She hasn't responded to me anytime I ask when she would like to meet up so that I can give it to her. The third has been utterly bitter both to my face and behind my back. We had to move the wedding a month before hers because we got pregnant and she does nothing but complain about it and look down on me for getting pregnant before marriage. She isn't a "wait until marriage" kind of girl either so it doesn't make any sense.
I don't know how to approach any of these girls. UGH! Thanks for letting me vent!