July 2012 Weddings

What the BM?

So Ive posted about this BM before how she was non interested in anything wedding related among other things she has been doing that was odd. Back story. I set up an appt back in March for all my BM to dress shop for them together. This bm shows up late with a list of demands for the clerk. In the end she decides she is not going to go through DB and gets a swatch and wants to find her a dress that matches elsewhere. Well she found a dress elsewhere which I was totally ok with. Last night she asks me to send her an email of all the BMs dresses. So I do, no responses other then those are all cute. Tonight 9 days before the wedding she sends me a message saying "Im a DB, I can get a dress here as long as it doesnt match the others right?" I reply back "I thought you werent going through them and had a dress!?" Still no response back on her plans. WTF? Im so confused by this? I am curious to think its because every single BM, 5 others to be exact, all got their dresses through DB and she now wants to match the rest? I let all my BM pick out the dress they liked as long as it was the color I wanted. Her dress will obviously have to be off the rack because there is NO way they can get her dress to her by the 14th! 
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Re: What the BM?

  • Huh? I am confused- does she NOT want to match? Or does she want to match? Sorry, I am confused.

    So she never got her dress from somewhere else? Ugh, I hope she finds a dress and has it all ready in a week!
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  • I think she wants to match as in everyones dress is from DB, but non matching as in everyone has a different style of dress. lol Sorry if that confused ya! She did and does have a dress from elsewhere thats why im like WTF is going on!? 
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  • Ummmm okay. What's wrong with the other dress??

    Just wondering- how are your BMs dresses different? Are they same in color, but different styles? Or are all of them completely different?
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  • I dont know whats wrong with her org. dress now. I thought it worked. Everyone is the same color but a different style. I did it like this because not everyone is comfortable in the same style. 
    Example of a few of the girls. 

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  • Oh I like the idea!!! So does the BM want the dress in same color too? Or just completely different??

    Well let's just hope she will at least be wearing a dress!!
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  • Same color. The dress she has is the same color as these too. Im completely shocked by her getting a new dress. I dont know what made her want to go with DB after much protest. At least I know either way she has a dress! lol 
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  • Maybe she ended up not liking the dress she picked or it didn't fit right? Are you going to ask her?
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  • Yah def asking. Im waiting for her responses. I told my other BM and they are all like WTF too! lol 
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  • The dress she bought is strapless like the other dress she had, the same fabric, same style. She said she just didnt want to worry about color matching. 
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  • she didnt want to worry about it... 9 days before the wedding?!?
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  • In Response to Re:What the BM?:[QUOTE]The dress she bought is strapless like the other dress she had, the same fabric, same style. She said she just didnt want to worry about color matching.nbsp; Posted by Melissa.hylton[/QUOTE]

    I bet it doesn't fit. That's the only explanation that actually makes sense. Did you see the original dress in person or just a picture? Maybe she ordered it from some knock off place it was a disaster. My bff's fsil just did this with flower girl dresses. It was a disaster bc it was one of those random dress sites from China.
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  • Well I'm glad to hear that she got a dress and now it definitely matches the rest.  My guess is that it doesn't fit now or she bought it online somewhere and it is horrible.

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  • how bizarre about the BM!

    I'm doing the same thing as you with the dresses -- same color different styles
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