So my brother's wife, whom I have known since I was born - - she used to change my diapers...is giving me the hardest time with bridesmaid dresses. She lives 45 minutes away from the bridal store, apparently this is too far for her to travel to twice. So, she is going to go once and pick her dress up and bring it to get altered at her own place, well that's totally fine BUT her daugther is a jr. bridesmaid and the dresses that we picked basically need to be reconstructed to make it more age appropriate - - they need to get done by the store as they were the ones that gave the vision of the dress...she is giving me a hard time about this saying, "Im not going back and forth its too far"...GRRRR