I'm going dress shopping in just under two weeks (when I go home for spring break), and I'm really starting to dread it. I think the trying on dresses will be fine, But I'm getting nervous about going with my mom, for a few reasons.
1) She's all about waiting to buy the dress until later (I do have plenty of time) so I have more time to diet. Her body ideal is very thin/fit (she does yoga every day and has a six pack at 50), and I just don't have the same ideal. I'm not fat, but I'm not thin either, and I like it. My FI likes it. However, if history is any indicator, every dress I try on will be met with "And just imagine how pretty it will look say, 25 pounds lighter!"
2) She really doesn't care about the wedding at all. She wanted me to wait until I was at least 28 to get married, and has always said so. I'll have just turned 23 when I say I do. She is also not the biggest fan of my FI. Don't get me wrong, she thinks he's a good guy, just 'not what she would have picked for me'. I asked both sets of parents for their guest lists over a month ago. I had an organized list from his mom in a week. My mom had forgotten completely when I reminded her last night. She's just not a very emotional person, so 'weddings' don't really do it for her.
The moral of the story is, how can I get past my deep dark wish for the mother daughter shopping/planning experience I always saw and dreamed of? Has anyone else experienced something similar?