Pre-wedding Parties

MOH and MIL want to both throw me a seperate shower

My MOH has been vey vague on plans to throw me a bridal shower she says she wants to wait till April when it warms up a month before the wedding but shes kind of sketchy when it comes to planning. I've just heard from my fiance that my future mother in law wants to also thrw me a shower but she has not spoken to me about it at all. What should I do? Should I let them both throw me a seperate shower? Advice please

Re: MOH and MIL want to both throw me a seperate shower

  • edited February 2012
    It's fine to have two showers, with two separate guests lists - no duplicates. It's not unusual, around here, to have one shower for the bride's family and another for the groom's family.

    The MOB, MOG, sisters, grandmothers and wedding party should be invited to all showers, as a courtesy. They may choose to attend both, one or neither shower.
                       
  • Everyone in my family has had 2 showers.. one thrown by the FMIL and one by her girls.

    It's worked out nicely!

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