BM's Gift- Minimum amount?

sierraberry32 · January 2013

So I love buying gifts and I have already picked up some hints on what each and every girl would like. However, I wanted to put a limit or a minimum amount on what I should spend on their gifts, to make sure everyone is treated fairly. Did any of you ladies have or had a money limit on your BM's gifts? If so what do you think is appropriate?

Note: Each girl is getting something different, I don't want to buy them all the same gift. That would make me feel as if I didn't want to put much thought into saying "thank you" to them.

[Deleted User] · January 2013

There is no minimum, you should purchase a gift that is within your means. It sounds like you have some wonderful ideas so I would work on meeting those with a reasonable expenditure.

misssunshine17 · January 2013

There is no real guideline, but FWIW, I'm spending around $50 each.

AddieCake · January 2013

You spend what you can afford and what you want to spend. Everyone's budget is different. I spent about $50 for mine.

lls31 · January 2013

What can you afford to spend? I spent about $75 each.

mabapunta · January 2013

I think FI and myself were planning on about $100 for each side of the wedding party, which ends up being about $33pp. Depending on what we find, we might add a few bucks if necessary, but we're trying to keep to the budget.