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October 2012 Weddings
Wedding crazyness (kind of long)
So I haven't been on as frequently as I usually am. I had a total crying melt down the other night to FI. Who is amazing, sat there listened to all my bitching & ranting, let me cry it out, and talk me through some stuff. First starts last Friday when he picked up his 3yr old daughter who has the most beautiful curly sandy blonde hair, again the girl was not being watched & her hair got "cut" instead of a snip of the bangs this time she chopped off the up of her part up part down pony tail, so the poor thing looks like she has a mullet!! This is one of the flower girls too. Last night we got her again & her mothers friend had "fixed" her hair, this girl is supposed to be a professional that refuses to work at the "chop shops" in our area. B.S.!! After I got her out of the bath & was brushing her hair I call FI in to show him the left side was a good inch & half longer than the right!!! Next my MoH keeps saying she needs to meet up with me & wants to be more involved in the wedding & everytime I say anything about meeting up she has an excuse. I never see her! I know I'm the one who picked her, but its hurting my feelings a bit. I used to see her at least every two weeks. Now I'm lucky if I run into her once a month. Then we had some money issues come up & we are going to be down to the wire figuring out whether or not we're going to be able to afford the catering. Like down to the 2week mark & I'm trying to come up with a back up plan. But its got me stressed to the max!!
Sorry had to get that all out!
But on a happy note I kicking some major butt on my rolled ribbon roses. FI says we are going to stay home next weekend & finish all the centerpieces. I have my Bridal shower on the 26th, fitting & bustle on the 8th & then bachlorette party that night!!
Sorry had to get that all out!
But on a happy note I kicking some major butt on my rolled ribbon roses. FI says we are going to stay home next weekend & finish all the centerpieces. I have my Bridal shower on the 26th, fitting & bustle on the 8th & then bachlorette party that night!!
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Re: Wedding crazyness (kind of long)
I think what you are going through is normal. In regards to the haircut, maybe it was the best that the person could in the attention span of a 3 year old. I''m sure with a headband or some bows, she is still going to look adorable.
I'm having same issue with a bridesmaid myself. All you can do is invite them to do things with you and if they can come, great, if not, just go do it. But at least they can't say you didn't ask.
Good luck with everything else, it sounds like you'll figure things out.
Thank you. I'm sure it will all work out I just wish I knew for a fact everything was going to be taken care of.