I'm getting married in June at the church that I grew up in and now work at. I am very concerned about not being able to invite all of the people from church and the volunteers I work with.
While I would love to have everyone from church at the wedding, there is no way I can have a reception for 500+ people. I have been trying to come up with a solution to how not hurt people's feelings and still stay on budget.
My idea is that we invite everyone to the wedding and have a "cocktail hour" type thing immediately following the service at the church with light horderves, cupcakes, punch things like that. Everyone would be invited to this and we'd be able to mingle with the guests for about an hour. I don't know what to call this because their would be no alcohol...
Following the non-cocktail hour, we would have a more formal reception for family, close friends and out of town guests at another location which would include dinner, drinking and dancing.
Is this tacky or inappropriate? Has anyone done this before? I could really use some advice on how to pull this off!