So... My ideal wedding was in Mexico, show up with a dress and a check and send out invites! (LOW STRESS)
Save the dates are sent - dress in hand and trip booked!
My soon to be In Laws are not in good shape health wise (this happened since the wedding was booked) they can't travel all the way to Mexico.
SO to make everyone happy I have decided to have a SMALL wedding and BIG backyard party here locally. Once again I have to do this before the weather turns cold, and their health doesn't get worse.
BTW this was all going to happen anyways, just after the trip to Mexico!
So all this is great except;
Local wedding - 9/17
Mexico wedding - 11/19.
Most of my friends and family are being supportive, but some of my guests are, well I guess mad! Asking me why they should go to Mexico if we are already married and having a celebration here!!!
I guess the question I am asking is; how wrong is this??? YES the order is out of whack, but I am not sure how I can keep everyone happy!!!!