"he's not supposed to see you until you are standing in front of him! it's your dad's last chance to kiss you! TRADITION says....."
I do NOT want one...my mom hated hers, I feel like I'm lost in mosquito netting when we put it infront of my face in the store. It was miserable. Am I stupid or stuckup for wanting everyone to be able to see my face when I walk down the aisle? I don't want to feel like I'm trapped in a potato sack. How do I tell her no without hurting her feelings? Or do I just suck it up?
Re: Future Mother In Law wants blusher veil
Consider telling your FMIL less of your wedding plans.
Agree with everybody. Nobody should have a say in what you wear anyway, you're the one who has to wear it. I wouldn't entertain the conversation anymore, I would say "actually I am not wearing a blusher because I don't like it", change the topic.
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As for the whole "He's not supposed to see you until you are right in front of him" thing goes, I did't wear a blusher and my groom couldn't see me...he can't see far without his glasses (I told him to wear them, he said no. Silly boy) and he didn't get contacts before our wedding, so he literally couldn't see me until I was right in front of him, anyway!
I've never been to a wedding with a blusher, and you are not obligated to wear one. Either don't talk wedding attire with her at all or just say, "It's really not my taste, but that painting over here IS! Isn't it fabulous!?!" or some other subject changer.
Good luck!