I am having such a hard time planning this wedding, there's some days I feel like it's all falling apart. I think what's making this hardest is that I'm trying to plan it from 12 hours away.
A couple days ago, I called a BM to make sure the dresses came in all right, and first thing she said about it was that she was having it shortened because the length was "ugly". She then proceeds to tell me that her mom made the first fitting appointment... for 10 am the morning after my staggette!!! Oh, and btw, I'm driving 12 hours, and taking 4 days off of work to do my party with them... Anyways, I asked if they would move the fitting to a different time or day and are refusing. My aunt is making it seem like I'm the bad guy for not wanting to get up at 8 am that morning!
I am also now down a (male) BM. Even though he knew about everything last August, he is just telling me now that he can't afford to be there. Of course now it's too late to order another dress for another BM
Nobody has been any help with this wedding, all that I have been getting is criticism (especially from my mother, not that she has any ideas to help though). I feel so unappreciated at this point. At this point, I would almost rather just elope to save the stress. I feel like this wedding could easily crash and burn, and it would all be on my shoulders.