I've just gotten engaged about a month ago. Dates have been tentatively set for July 2011. This is not my first marriage. But it is my first wedding (my last was more of an elopement...) and his first of both. So I'm pretty set on doing it rather "right" this time. The whole wedding,and reception thing... Now I know it's normal to be excited about these things, I sort of feel like I'm being obsessed w/it. It's all I ever talk about, think about and wonder about... all the little details, how to plan the budget, Heck, even the guest list and numbers have already been done in a sense... just so we could speak to vendors and venues w/ some sort of an idea... (and all it is is ideas at this point)....and I'm so afraid of turning into bridezilla...anyone else going through something like this... planning is sort of fun, but when does the obsession with it calm down?