After my first date with my fiance, I told my mom that I couldn't marry him because his last name is Goldstein. My name is Goldie. Goldie Goldstein!?! Yes, people meet him, then meet me, then have the "aha" moment where they figure out my potential married name. It's a fun game we now play with people we meet. Anyways, now it's 6 months till our wedding and I'm still completely on the fence stuck somewhere between a name that will either be cute or totally crazy.
Part of me has always believed that it's a wonderful thing for a family to all have the same last name.
I'm also in the academic community, haven't published anything yet, so there's no real reason stopping me, just fear.
I would love all of your thoughts on name change in general. I think we all go through doubts and it's great to hear what other modern women think.
Thanks!