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Pre-wedding Parties

Shower invites

Hi ladies, My MOH my aunt needs my invite list for the shower. My dilemma is that I'm inviting 8 of my coworkers to the wedding, one of whom is throwing me a work shower. I'm guessing most will go to that one. Do I invite them to the shower my family is planning as well? I honestly don't care about gifts. I just don't want them to feel hurt or offended if they aren't invited to that one, especially if they can't make the work shower. But I don't want anyone to feel the need to bring gifts to two showers. Basically, I don't want to be rude or hurt or offend anyone. What should I do? My mother also told me not to invite my coworker friends but to invite the other friends but I want to make sure that's ok to do. Thanks for any advice!

Re: Shower invites

  • Also, I forgot to mention, my coworkers are taking me on a 2 night bachelorette getaway. This is so generous of them. This is why I'm very worried about appearing rude by not inviting anyone to the family planned shower or appearing to be asking too much by inviting them to a second shower.
  • No guest should be invited to more than one shower. The exceptions are the moms, sisters of the b&g and wedding party. It's very nice that your coworkers are throwing a shower and a bp getaway for you. You must be a very close group : )
                       
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