Hi ladies, My MOH my aunt needs my invite list for the shower. My dilemma is that I'm inviting 8 of my coworkers to the wedding, one of whom is throwing me a work shower. I'm guessing most will go to that one. Do I invite them to the shower my family is planning as well? I honestly don't care about gifts. I just don't want them to feel hurt or offended if they aren't invited to that one, especially if they can't make the work shower. But I don't want anyone to feel the need to bring gifts to two showers. Basically, I don't want to be rude or hurt or offend anyone. What should I do? My mother also told me not to invite my coworker friends but to invite the other friends but I want to make sure that's ok to do. Thanks for any advice!