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mslively6 · January 2013

if someone from your bridal party drops out, should you still invite them to the wedding ceremony?

leatba · January 2013

Depends on their reason for dropping out. If it were because of a money issue then I would still invite and out friendship would still be preserved. I can't even think of a reason why I wouldn't invite unless we weren't friends anymore.

keyaira04 · January 2013

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_guest-question?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:400Discussion:9735817f-cf3c-4658-9d27-8bcc6e79b6b1Post:c895d562-845f-43e5-a40e-a01c01ecd551">Re:guest question:</a>:
[QUOTE]Depends on their reason for dropping out. If it were because of a money issue then I would still invite and out friendship would still be preserved. I can't even think of a reason why I wouldn't invite unless we weren't friends anymore.
Posted by leatba[/QUOTE]

<div>This. </div>

CreoleBride30 · January 2013

I agree with PP. If you thought highly enough of them to ask them to be a member of your wedding party, then I don't see why you would not invite them as a guest. Dropping out of the wedding does not necessarily equal loss of friendship. Many times ppl are too embarrassed to say they agreed to something that now they cannot do. We have all done it before. Try not to take it to heart. Call your friend up and in a non confrontational way find out what's going on with her. You just never know what someone else may be enduring. Cha

M1ssJ · January 2013

What Lea and Cha said. If it's not because of a falling out of epic proportions I would still invite them

footballwife77 · January 2013

exactly what leatba said. If ya'll are still on good terms, then yes! I uninvited my drop out though because she was a negative nancy

aquari0216 · January 2013

In Response to Re:guest question::[QUOTE]I agree with PP. If you thought highly enough of them to ask them to be a member of your wedding party, then I don't see why you would not invite them as a guest. Dropping out of the wedding does not necessarily equal loss of friendship. Many times ppl are too embarrassed to say they agreed to something that now they cannot do. We have all done it before. Try not to take it to heart. Call your friend up and in a non confrontational way find out what's going on with her. You just never know what someone else may be enduring.
Cha Posted by CreoleBride30[/QUOTE]

Very well put

ladycane015 · January 2013

Agree w/ everyone else...2 dropouts, 1 is invited b/c we're still friends. The other is not invited b/c i haven't talked to her since like last February & she wasn't even decent enough to tell me she was dropping out -_-

mslively6 · January 2013

i agree with all of you. i love her to death but this whole sudden drop out (see my post about another one bites the dust) just takes the cake. but i still want her there.

those other two? oh, they are DONE.

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