Okay, so I dont know if you ladies remember my last post, but I did promise an update.
1) I FINALLY got a chance to lay all my "cards" out on the table.
2) We made a sudden unplanned trip to Baltimore to meet his kids and family and then went to NYC to see my dad and my step-mom. The visit went very well for the both of us.
3) We went to a unit function and we talked to his chaplain openly about seeing couples counseling... even got to talk about our issues with him for a little while.
So far everything truly does seem like its all going to work out as long as we continue to take out time.

Thanks for all the love and support that you showed.
Tracey