Hi Everyone,
My fiance and I are engaged after 3+ years together; for 2.5 years we have lived together. Everyone has known we would get married and even his kids (boys, 9 and 4) were not surprised when we announced the engagement. We already feel like a family. My problem now is that no one, even our parents, seems all that excited! Everyone just seems worried we'll throw money down the drain on a wedding, and as they already see us as married, I'm just not getting the celebration vibe I expected.
We were planning on a small, inexpensive wedding anyway - should we just elope? And/or just throw an informal party instead of a fancy reception? Ideas?
If we elope, should we have the ceremony filmed so family and friends can watch it later? Just trying not to have any regrets if we skip a wedding ... especially since the kids would miss it, too.
I welcome any and all ideas! Thank you!