I have a friend who's getting married this year and I offered to research a few things for her. One of them is how they should do communion: She grew up Catholic and her fiancé grew up Protestant. They'd like to do communion together, but just the 2 of them (as is traditional in Protestant ceremonies) and not all of the guests. The main question is who can/should serve them communion? Can they simply take it together without an overseeing priest/pastor? Or if they do need a spiritual leader to serve it, who should it be? And do the pieces of communion need to be a certain kind or can it just be any bread and wine? They want to honor and respect both traditions... Advice?