40 days.. and I'm starting to feel crazy!

Re: 40 days.. and I'm starting to feel crazy!

• jamie5482

  

  July 2012

  I know exactly what you mean! I realized we have 47 days left and I had an internal panic attack for 3 seconds while tearing up because it's almost here!! We've been engaged since January 1st 2011 and I think we both can't wait to get the planning overwith and go on the honeymoon.

  
  

  I definitely feel like a weirdo, haha. I'm assuming that's normal though

  

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• csouthward

  

  July 2012

  Yeah I'm feeling like that as well and my FI is a procrastinator (big time) so I feel a bit overwhelmed....Just ready to get it over....All of the big stuff is pretty much done but I feel like I'm running out of time and now it's time to begin dishing out money.......We have 47 days to go as well....Whewwwwww.....

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• The Fords member

  

  July 2012

  I am 41 days out and I had a momentary freak out moment the other day. I feel like the wedding is really next month !! I feel overwhelmed as well...I need a few clones for he day of !!

  Future Mrs.Ford

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• KBSK12

  

  July 2012

  One thing that's helping me not feel so anxious is that FMIL hired a DOC, so I won't have to worry about anything on the day besides relaxing and marrying FI.  It's just all these things leading up to the actual day that make me feel panicky. Glad to know I'm not alone!

  

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• loinmo

  

  July 2012

  No you are definitely not alone! I have a DOC and have 47 days left too. I am starting to feel a bit overwhelmed because I am afraid I am forgetting something and by the time I remember it will be too late.

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• mck776

  

  July 2012

  lol we have 2 months to go today, I feel an intense amount of excitement! I can't wait! I'm also overwhelmed I started typing up an itinerary  for the day of, I just need to get the times for hair and makeup-- I have no idea when that should start. I live out of state where I'm getting married so I haven't met with the dj which is freaking me out a little.

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• calindi member

  

  July 2012

  I'm at 40 days, too!  But thankfully, no panic.  We're pretty much on track with everything, and I'm keeping everything in perspective and not letting the little things get to me.  We got a few bigger projects done this weekend, which was great!  I hope to get a few more done tonight.
  
  June 1st gave me about 2 weeks worth of panic - for some reason, seeing that I only had 3 months made me freak.  I think it was because from 5 months until 3 months, I was so busy with FI finishing up law school, me finishing up my job, his graduation, moving across the country... I didn't have time to stop and process!  So 3 months hit me like a ton of bricks.  But since then, it's all gone quite well!

  
  
  
  
  
  

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• Katiesue04 member

  

  July 2012

  Yeah I am freaking out a little, but I honestly just want the day to be over with.  It's just not worth it anymore.  I just want to go on the cruise.  It's one day that I can't believe I am spending this much money on.

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• southofnormal member

  

  July 2012

  I'm with katiesue. We are having a small wedding, about 30 people and I still feel stressed and overwhelmed. I just want it to be over with and it still seems silly to me to have spent so much money. I just wanted to run away to Vegas ... FI is the one who wanted the "big" wedding. :-p

  Proposal Site: 12/29/10 United States Capitol Building

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