Well today is FI first day off from his new job and him and FFIL had a talk for the first time since the major blow out over a week and half ago about us moving. FFIL finally admitted that he was just scared, and IMO co-dependent, that his son was really moving on with his life and he wasn't such a big part of it anymore. FI has always done a lot for his dad since his mother passed all those years ago and FFIL never thought he would see the day his son would be getting married. I am glad they both sat down and finally talked instead of FFIL screaming at him like he lost his freaking mind. Does this convo they had change the relationship between me and FFIL, only time will tell about that one. FI knows I am not looking for this man to do a complete 180 turn around about me. I just want him to FINALLY see that I do have his son's best interest at heart and so does my family. At least this lifted a stress off both our shoulders and we can finally rest to know that his father will not act ugly the day of the wedding. Now if he shows up is another story.
