Okay so I am having a secret wedding.. Not for any crazy reason just because I think it is about dang time!! My FI and I have been together for almost 12 years and we have a son that just truned 11 but with life going so fast it just hasn't happened. At frist it was that we had our son very young then it was money, deaths, one time a family member sent her save the dates out before I could mail mine, we moved out of state , then there was the church that 3 months before the wedding told us we have to get married right away so we were no long living in sin. Each time it got pushed back and with us now buying a house the wedding is not really high on our list but we wanna be married.. We almost never see or talk to any of our family (his and mine)other then my mom and dad and we always do everything just the 3 of us so after talking one night we said lets do it. We are doing it our way with only his mom, dad and brother and my mom, dad and sister we are going to get married by a friend with a view of the space needle and run around taking fun photos in the city. No big dress or dinner just us!
