My best friend and MOH just told me she is pregnant (unexpected for her and her hubby, too) and is due 2 weeks before the wedding. There's a whole slew of things that makes this a bit complicated and I could use some impartial advice. First of all, we live about 3000 miles apart from each other... my MOH is in my home state (where the wedding is) and I'm across the country. This is what I need advice on:
1) How do I handle the dress situation?
2) She has a toddler, is in grad school and works full time on top of expecting a baby right before the wedding... how much can I ask of her leading up to the wedding? I feel like I'd be asking too much of her to take on the "traditional" MOH duties.
3) How do I ask her to tackle her MOH duties at the wedding and reception if she has a newborn (that needs to be fed, etc)?
I'm just so overwhelmed by this and I don't want to ask too much of her, but want and need the support of a MOH that can really be there during the whol wedding and ceremony. With that said, this certainly isn't justg about me... Having a baby is sooooo exciting and I am so happy for her. I would hate it if it seemed like I was getting pouty or not being supportive of her exciting event. It just stinks that my big day and her big event are happening almost exactly at the same time. What do I do?
Thanks!!!