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Feeling a little discouraged and frustrated
Ladies,
My fiance still hasn't provided me with his finalized guest list and addresses so that our save the dates can be sent out. I really am annoyed beyond words that everytime I speak with him about it "it's getting done" "i'm almost finished" "this is really hard" or "i want to get them done by the end of..."
I don't know what the H E double hockey sticks to do anymore. How much more can I ask him for it without doing it myself. These things were supposed to be out LAST MONTH. I am entering the 5 month mark for my wedding date!
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My fiance still hasn't provided me with his finalized guest list and addresses so that our save the dates can be sent out. I really am annoyed beyond words that everytime I speak with him about it "it's getting done" "i'm almost finished" "this is really hard" or "i want to get them done by the end of..."
I don't know what the H E double hockey sticks to do anymore. How much more can I ask him for it without doing it myself. These things were supposed to be out LAST MONTH. I am entering the 5 month mark for my wedding date!
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Re: Feeling a little discouraged and frustrated
At least that's what I had to do. I had to break out the laptop, trap Fi in our home office, and make him sit there and go line by line to finish the guest list. Yes, he tried to escape, but I would not let him leave until we finished it.
RSVP Deadline May 11th 2011
Ditto PP's advice. Sometimes when things are not being done right you have to do it yourself. Ask him if he would like you to help him so that it can be done and finished. Maybe that might work? If not, you may have to handle that part and keep it moving. Good luck.
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Sorry I don't have many venting days on here but I am so over this guest list
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Hope all goes well..FAST!
[QUOTE]We had the same problem with his folks. <strong>They dragged their feet until i told them that if i didnt have it in hand within 24 hours that their family and friends wont be invited at all... Dont you know that i had it 15 minutes later</strong>. sometimes you gotta light a fire under that arsse......
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Exactly! Seriously....it works.
Girrrrl its men! I gave FI 2 weeks to give me his list, he failed to comply asked for 3 more days, nothing. So I kindly mailed out our engagment announcement picture to my family and friends and his momma. I got the "cant believe you did that!" then his momma called and asked him why the hockey sticks he didnt mail it to all his aunt and uncles, etc. Guess who's list was in my inbox the next day?