January 2012 Weddings

Dear wedding...

I quit.

Aunt now refuses to come cause the bfs can't come.

Re: Dear wedding...

  • Oh, Jen....I'm so sorry. I hate family drama. I really hope she reconsiders!
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  • IDK if I should squeeze the extra 2 people in so they come or just let them not come.

    advice? 

    Pretty much sitting here crying cause I can't take the drama.
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    [QUOTE]IDK if I should squeeze the extra 2 people in so they come or just let them not come. advice?  Pretty much sitting here crying cause I can't take the drama.
    Posted by hippolover[/QUOTE]

    Personally, I'm one who doesn't believe you should give into that kind of crap.  It just encourages it.

    I'm sorry she's doing this to you. :(
  • Sigh, its ok. I guess I shouldn't expect anything else from my family.
  • I'm with Mark on this one. Remember I didnt invite my bridesmaid drop out to my wedding because if you cant afford to be in it, you cant afford to go.

    Hold your ground girly! Just hang in there only 10 more days to go and all this stress will go away.
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  • I have petty family drama and usually give in -- but only because it's easier than not giving in. That said, if it is important to you, don't budge. But if this is status quo and you are making life harder for yourself by standing ground, I know I would give in :) I hope you are stronger than me, though! :) Good luck!!
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  • I agree with standing your ground.  Sure it's only 2 more people but next thing you know someone else will want to do the same thing.  But we're almost there.  Hugs! 
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  • I am so sorry. Stand your ground. I know it sucks. She is really acting immature just to get her way, when you don't back down and it doesn't work, she will change her ways.
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    [QUOTE]I agree with standing your ground.  Sure it's only 2 more people but next thing you know someone else will want to do the same thing.  But we're almost there.  Hugs! 
    Posted by shellmaneth[/QUOTE]

    This!

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    [QUOTE]I am so sorry. Stand your ground. I know it sucks. She is really acting immature just to get her way, when you don't back down and it doesn't work, she will change her ways.
    Posted by awarm014[/QUOTE]

    And this!
  • Well I met with the venue yesterday. They were not included in my final count. And neither was my aunt's family.

    1. she had mu phone number cause I left it and she choose not to call. I don't want anyone had my wedding that can't or won't call me.

    2. It may not make a difference, but I am standing up for my dad. No one deserves to be treated in such a matter.

    So they are cut.

    Thanks everyone for your support.
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    [QUOTE]No one deserves to be treated in such a matter. So they are cut. Thanks everyone for your support.
    Posted by hippolover[/QUOTE]

    Congrats on standing up for yourself!  I'm sorry it has to hurt so much....:(
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