So my one BM is being kind of selfish if you ask me. I am also a BM in her wedding which is the month before mine. I gave her money for my BM dress that she got a Macy's (She lives in the next state over) and I couldn't find the dress near me. So I hate the dress..whatever I bought it for her. She also got the wrong size and I will need alterations. I also sent $75 and the dress is $55 so I have $20 left over which she never offered to send back to me.
Anyway with all that being said, she hasn't even tried to get the BM dress for my wedding. Yes my wedding is 7 months away but she made me get the dress for her wedding?!
I asked her to get a matte black dress. She has a shiny black dress already and wanted to use that but it won't work with the rest of my bridal party. She doesn't want to buy a dress it seems like. She keeps saying she has 2 other dresses that are black in storage and will take a picture of them for me. She has not done so.
I sent her the link of where my other two BMs got their dresses..at JCPenney for $50. She didn't say anything about it.
Ok so I am buying a dress that was $55 dollars plus now major alterations..which is not bad for a BM dress but I feel like she doesn't want to spend any money on the BM dress for my wedding the way she makes me feel. I know the wedding is 7 months away but she has been making me do everything for her wedding now and I want to start to piece my wedding together.
Am I being retarded?! Frustrated.