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Question About Choosing Photographer

So my fiance and I have been meeting with photographers, and we're having a hard time making the decision, so I wanted to ask you ladies for advice/what you would do. Let's say you met with two photographers:

Photographer A. I loved all the photos I saw of hers online, she is a recommended vendor for your venue, and she has a great reputation. But when we met her in person, she seemed kind of scattered, didn't really try to sell herself or her work (ie: talking to us about how she works, etc), went off on several unrelated tangents in conversation, and the questions she asked us seemed like they were more suited for a conversation after we had booked, such as asking about siblings and family members, who can be photographed with whom, as opposed to asking about timing of the day, what we're looking for, etc. Also, because she wasn't trying to sell herself, it was kind of like pulling teeth to get info out of her. But again, looking at just her photos, they were great.

Photographer B. I liked her photos a lot, though not AS MUCH as photographer A. But she was very engaging and enthusiastic, and seemed like she would have an easy time getting all our friends and family to loosen up and have a good time for the photos. She had lots of ideas and asked about our ideas, was very open to suggestions and collaboration and did a good job explaining everything and answering all our questions. I left this meeting feeling excited, like we were good friends working on a fun project together.

I know that it is important to have a photographer whom you feel comfortable with. But in this case, who would you go with? The pics you loved but the photographer who seemed a bit off? Or the pics you liked a lot and a photographer you really gelled with?

I know this was long, thanks for reading and for any advice or opinions! Smile

Re: Question About Choosing Photographer

  • edited December 2011
    Since you liked the second photographer's photos, I would probably just go with her. I wouldn't want to feel anxious about the first photographer on my wedding day. That's a tough one. Have you asked for references? Maybe you can talk to another bride to see how it was working with the first photographer.
  • edited December 2011
    Thanks for your feedback, Cony&Ben. I've sent PMs to two knotties who have used the first photographer for their wedding. Only one has responded so far- seems she had a similar personal experience as me, but was still happy with the way her pics came out. I'm waiting to hear what the second has to say. But I think we are probably leaning towards the second photographer.
  • edited December 2011
    The most important thing is that you be comfortable with your photog on that day, they are going to be everywhere, even a good fly on the wall photog is going to be noticeable, so it you like the second photog personalities better i say go with that one, because if you are tense around the other photog, that will show in pics. IMO

    stefanie
  • fallbride1109fallbride1109 member
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    edited December 2011
    I would choose photographer B most likely.  Asking for recs is good and also you might try looking them both up on Weddingwire.com.
  • edited December 2011
    Ok so please bear with me-

    We met with a 3rd photographer today. We loved his photos, and thought they were a little better than the second photographer's. He was very nice, seemed very creative and open to ideas, and was happy to answer all our questions. I think on a personal level we'd be comfortable enough with him, though I think I'd be a bit more comfortable with her. How much stock do I put in that? I guess what I'm asking is, is it enough to just think the photographer is nice enough to be able to let loose and be comfortable in front of the camera? Or do you really need them to feel like a close friend? I know I'm totally overanalyzing, it's just that photography is really at the top of my priority list.Embarassed
  • edited December 2011
    Check for reviews on them all from WeddingWire.com and other places to see what past brides have said then rank them on this.  Next go through and rank them on personality, then go through and rank them on you love of their photos, then go through and rank them on price.  Each 1, 2 then 3.  Then add the numbers up and the one with the lowest scores I would go with since they will have "ranked" highest.  This is the analytical way to fix it at least :-)  Good Luck!
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  • gidgetscoutgidgetscout member
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    edited December 2011
    The most important thing is the quality of the photos and the creativity they show. Yes its great to have someone you really feel like is a friend, but end the end you will always be wishing their photos were as good as the ones you realy wanted. You son't have to be friends with the photographer for the rest of your life, but you should love your photos. Just because someone is a good salesmen doesn't mean they are a great photographer. I recommend doing just an engaement session with the one you are most considering and see if you like the photos and the experience you get shooting with them. If you don't then you ccan always book one of the other photographers. Also if you are going to have getting ready pictures taken, then I recommend a female photographer. I hope this helps.
  • jusayangejusayange member
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    edited December 2011
    If you're still shopping for photographers I'd be happy to meet with ya!



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