My fiance and I have been together for a 1 1/2 years so far, and been engaged 9 months . He was always so sweet and attentive in the beginning. I have fibromyalgia which keeps me in pain most days out of the week. He used to cater to me during those times, now, he turns a blind eye (or so I feel). We went grocery shopping yesterday and of things, my back tensed up and my legs literally didnt want to work! I continued to press my way through the shopping trip and he said nothing. When we are done, as we are walking to the car, he walks ahead of me like we're not together and starts putting groceries in the trunk. I grabbed a bag and put it in the trunk and he says, 'I can see your in pain, I'll put the groceries, go ahead and get in the truck.' Out of habit I get in the driver's seat and it took me at least 5 minutes to get in. When he gets in, I'm still struggling to get my left leg in the door. He sits and watches me do all this and then asks me if I would like him to drive. I don't say anything. So he says nevermind.
What I don't get, if you see me in pain why do I have to ask you to help me? He's known me long enough to know what this pain is all about and the effects that it takes on my body. So I checked him on it and told him if he is my husband to be, you should take charge!! Apparently he didn't like that, so he hasn't talked to me since yesterday. Now he's saying he's not a mind reader and since I didn't open my mouth and say anything, he didn't do anything.
I don't believe I'm wrong about being upset. I need advice, PLEASE HELP!!!!!!