I am having some really big problems hammering down my list of bridesmaids..
hoping maybe some of you could give me some advice on the drama that surrounds these ladies!
i have my cousin who has been like a sister to me all my life, however we fight constantly and can go for months without talking - i feel like she should be there, and there will be lots of problems if she isnt. she enjoys attention and is quite the drama queen.. and ontop of that she has her 2nd child on the way.. and expects to be my MOH - however we have drifted apart this last yr and i get knots in my stomache thinking about all the things i could see her doing to make the most important moment in my life ALL about her.. or to bring me down..
you probably are all thinking easy! dont invite her.. but its family and im worried of a serious backlash.. but it makes me so uneasy thinking of all the things i could see her doing that isnt supportive..
so if i were to not ask her.. but wait.. she already expects me to as we have talked about having each other there since we were little girls.. im so confused i really just dont know what to do..
oh! and to beat.. her and another bridesmaid potential are arch enemies so im concerned that if both of them are up there , it will be nasty .. and im concerned if one is and one isnt , it will be nasty .. the last thing i want is a cat fight on my wedding day .. should i stage a intervention with the two of them? they said they both would get along - but i still sense a large amount of hostility coming from my cousin towards my friend..
i really dont want to take sides!
HELP ME PLEASE!