Wedding Brain

Re: Wedding Brain

• brittany634 member

  

  October 2012

  haha- I listen to music at work to stay focused too, It's pending phone call day- i have about 200 folders on my desk- this could take awhile.

  

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• cudababy71 member

  

  October 2012

  Oh yeah. I've got it bad. It's my last day at work and while I should be making sure everything is squared away, alas, here I am.

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• brittany634 member

  

  October 2012

  It's not so much that- my FMIL and FSIL are driving me nuts- I love them I really do, but it's the little things that are bothering me, like my FMIL has said for months she's not getting read at the hotel all of a sudden she is and she wants to use my room- okay fine, however there will already be 10 people in my room- and she didn't ask me she asked my FSIL. and She showed my FSIL and her Stepmom her dress, but not me, i would like to know what it looks like too, and not be surprised. IDK maybe i'm stressing too much. Just trying to remember to breathe.

  

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• brittany634 member

  

  October 2012

  It's going to be insane- i'm not looking forward to it.
  
  I try, I'm just on edge lately with everything else going on.

  

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• kd.joseph

  

  October 2012

  Brittany- Just worry about you and what you got going on. I wouldnt take on that BS at all. She'll be there, she'll be dressed and that will be it.
  
  You have enough to worry about, she's an adult, but it sounds like she's trying for a bit of drama. Were you close to her before all this?

  

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• brittany634 member

  

  October 2012

  I was close to her, until I confided in her about something FSIL did, and she told FSIL exactly what I said and started a bunch of drama. So i try and stay away from her now. And FSIL and Husband keep torturing me about putting pumpkins in the centerpieces randomly, or getting FI drunk before the wedding, amongst other things, and it's all in good fun I guess but it stresses me out, we've worked so hard (and spent so much) on this wedding that i'm not enjoying it anymore, i'm honestly ready for it to be over and just to be married. Which I swore i'd never do(get so stressed I hate it) and I can't really take a step back at this point because it's now 16 days away....
  
  it feels better to vent.

  

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• kd.joseph

  

  October 2012

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_wedding-brain?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:e39812b8-949a-4b45-b88d-fa8547feb005Post:f07060b0-400c-4454-9690-6421816c27ac">Re: Wedding Brain</a>:
  [QUOTE]I was close to her, until I confided in her about something FSIL did, and she told FSIL exactly what I said and started a bunch of drama. So i try and stay away from her now. And FSIL and Husband keep torturing me about putting pumpkins in the centerpieces randomly, or getting FI drunk before the wedding, amongst other things, and it's all in good fun I guess but it stresses me out, we've worked so hard (and spent so much) on this wedding that i'm not enjoying it anymore, i'm honestly ready for it to be over and just to be married. Which I swore i'd never do(get so stressed I hate it) and<strong> I can't really take a step back at this point because it's now 16 days away</strong>.... it feels better to vent. :)
  Posted by brittany634[/QUOTE]
  
  Sure you can! Have a evening to yourself where you dont talk,do, or focus on anything but you and you FI. Push all that other stuff out of your head for a moment. I promise you'll feel better.
  
  Breathe, relax and I promise your day will be just wonderful.

  

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