My dad haven't been on good terms for the past couple of years and things are getting worse now between us. My wedding is in less than a month. He is invited to the wedding and as far as I know he his coming.
The way things are right now, I do not want him to walk me down the aisle to give me away. I do not feel that the symbolizm it shows applies to our relationship. I have one reletive that is pressuring me to resolve things with him and tells me I will regret not having him walk me down the aisle. Which may be true.
At this point, I know if I have him walk me down, I will not be happy. At a time which is supposed to be my happiest. I know my fiance will not be happy either if he sees my dad walk me down. I was thinking having my younger brother walk me down, or I just walk down the aisle myself. I would like to patch things up in time for the wedding. But if they don't work out, I know having my dad walking me down the aisle would put me in a bad mood and some memebers of my family are making a big deal about it.