Hey everyone! This is my first post, but I figured if ever there were people to offer advice, it would be here!
My boyfriend of almost 4 years and I have been talking about weddings for quite some time, and have recently decided to be married in May 2013 (yes, that is a mere 6 months away!) We're planning a very low key (roughly 70-80 of our closest friends and family), simple wedding that just showcases our love for each other (our mantra being "we're not planning for a wedding, but rather for the marriage that follows").
We've booked our photographer, I've purchased my dress, and we're looking at unique venues that will accomodate our ceremony and dessert reception. Things are moving along wonderfully considering the abruptness of it all, however the only issue is that because we don't have an engagement ring (and HTB is a stickler for traditions like that) we haven't told any of our family yet.
To be honest, my mother is in an extremly unhappy marriage, and is against anyone else taking the leap...she's one of my closest friends, and I'm really unsure how to break it to her. I also feel like people won't see the validity yet as we aren't "officially" engaged.
Anyone have any ideas how to cope with these isues? This is the man of my dreams, my best friend, and I want nothing more than to spend the rest of my life with him. I just hope that other's will be able to see it in the same light.