My mom has been totally removed from almost everything I have done. She doesnt seem excited or intrested at all. She loves my fiance so I dont get it. I am drownding in planning and need help. I have been so frustrated and then yesterday she pushed me over the edge. She sent me a text asking when my wedding is! Seriously, I think thats something she should remember especially since I made a planner for her with all the dates thinking that would help. Then later she was giving me a guilt trip for not going to my cousins bride-to-be's shower. I have an invitiation assembly party that day that I have been planning for 2 months that she was supposed to come to and approved the date for. She said I need to be more involved in the family.
I really am thinking about responding to that by saying she should be more involved in my wedding. I dont want to hurt her, but I am tired of being trampled on. What is the best way to get my point across without hurting her feelings