So I am getting married in June and I'm actually starting to feel like this is really happening. Having an 18 month long engagement sometimes makes you feel like 'ya i'm getting married...eventually' but I am actually really into it all now. Loving that. Anywho, I decided to have a Matron of Honor, my sister who is 17 years older than me, and a Maid of Honor my best friend who is a year younger than me. Now I have been doing a lot of running around here and there doing wedding errands with my best friend, she is actually into all of that stuff, which is cool because i know planning someone else's wedding isnt necessarily the most fun thing to do, but my sister and I while we love each other and enjoy hanging out, it's hard to bring up wedding stuff since there is such a big age gap. She's been married for 14 years and and has twin 11 year olds. She's super busy and we usually just end up shooting the breeze when we get a chance to talk.
The other day my sister kinda brought up the wedding and the conversation kinda left me with the feeling that she felt a little left out because I had been running around with my best friend and hadnt really done anything with her involving the wedding. I was kinda shocked because I had thought that because she was so busy asking her to be 'more involved' would be a burden. I would love to involve her more since she asked to be involved more, but this is my predicament. I'm kinda in a wedding lull just having acheived most of what i needed to get done in the last few weeks for a while. Other than actually mailing my STDs I wont have to do anything for a least a month or two. What could I do to include my sister more?