First, thank you for indulging me on the BM gift questions. (I asked about the dog bone necklace last week). The person I usually run everything by is the one I'm trying to think of the perfect gift for, so it's hard. We love exchanging presents, and we both spend a lot of time picking out each others gifts on holidays, so I feel a lot of pressure to make her BM gift fantastic.
That being said...what do you think of a handmade afghan? I can crochet...I'm not an expert, but there was one year when everyone got a scarf or hat. I made my mom an afghan but that's the only one I've ever made because frankly I don't usually have the patience.
Also...IF that's a good idea, would it be weird if she got something that took me hours and hours to make, and my sister (MOH) got jewelry that I just bought? Would it look bad that I put so much effort into one and not the other? Or am I overthinking?