I was totally freaked about picking a venue too. If you want to give me (or the board) your top few venues, we can tell you the pros and cons as we know them. I feel like I looked at every venue in columbus by the time I made a decision (except hotels and country clubs, can't tell you much about those).
Regarding Via Vecchia, I am feeling very confident about my experience there. Michael, one of the owners, is an absolute gem and I've been working with Charlie (girl) from Catering by Scott. All of the interactions I have had with both VV and CBS have been incredible. Sure, now that I've been warned, I'm going to be very careful and be sure to get every little thing in writing. There is no way that I would let the bad review of CBS sway me away from VV. I love the space and the owners way too much. Just my two cents.