No, I'm not asking if I can kick her out But I'm worried that one of my bridesmaids isn't going to buy her dress. She just recently had a baby (2 days ago actually). Of course I'm happy for her and the baby! I've been texting her (before and after the delivery) and will probably visit tonight.
The absolute last day to order the dress for our August wedding without a rush fee is 3/31. I just don't know how to approach it with her without looking like a terrible person because she literally JUST had a baby. And it was a c-section, so of course she can't really do much for the next couple weeks, and to be clear, I'm NOT expecting her to. But that basically leaves the last week of this month. I'm just worried that she won't order it, and I wouldn't be shocked if she doesn't. My MOH (a friend) knows this BM (who is my relative) and agrees it wouldn't be shocking.
I guess I'm really just hurt and stressed by this. I don't want to bug her about it now because I know it would be totally inappropriate. But she ignored the previous communications I've had about ordering the dress.
What should I say, if anything to her? I was thinking about maybe letting her know, in a week or so, that the last date to order is 3/31, and offer to watch the baby or go with her when she orders it...and then just see what her response is.