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Thinking about changing my wedding date

lovelybride614lovelybride614 member
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in Ohio-Cincinnati
I just realized we still have 2 years and 2 weeks to go. I don't know if I want to wait that long. I think I'm going to see if we can move it up. Am I crazy?
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Re: Thinking about changing my wedding date

  • LizzyRBLizzyRB member
    100 Comments Second Anniversary 5 Love Its

    Mine is like 50 weeks away and that seems like an eternity. I can;t imagine waiting 2 years!

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  • justengaged777justengaged777 member
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    What was the original thought/reason behind waiting? I have had friends who wanted to have a big reception but couldn't afford it. They had a backyard ceremony and small party with close friends and family then they are doing a vow renewal on their one year anniversary and having the big party then.
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  • lovelybride614lovelybride614 member
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    The original reason was my step-father's health. I knew my mom couldn't handle stress while grieving. Unfortunately it declined a lot sooner than we thought and she wld have about a yr or so to start the healing process. Money came up at one point, but we might still be able to pull it off. I got a job with a significant pay increase so we aren't as strapped for money. But we also want to buy a house in a couple of years... Just not sure what I should do
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  • LizzyRBLizzyRB member
    100 Comments Second Anniversary 5 Love Its
    I'm sorry to hear about your stepdad. I think your mom will still be healing weather its in a yea or two years. Having it sooner may help her since she will have things to do to help you? Take her mind off of it type thing. You could talk to her and see what she thinks
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  • texasmoontexasmoon
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    edited June 2012
    So may we assume you have not yet booked any venue, so as not to loose your deposit?  If that's the case and you're basically starting new/fresh, then by all means move it up to a more do-able time line.  Agree w/ PP that your mom helping out may be just what she needs to divert her attention elsewhere - to something joyous.
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