So, I had planned on a smallish bridal party using only 1st cousins. Yesterday, my mom's cousin sent me a facebook message from her daughter asking if she could be a flower girl. I had not planned on inviting my mom's cousins kids at all. She has three kids, and if I invite them, then I have to invite her sister's 3 kids. (An extra 6 children) I don't know what to say or how to not come off as rude. The other thing is I was a flower girl for my mother's cousins wedding too.