July 2012 Weddings

My abuelita is coming!!!!!! :D

It was supposed to be a surprise but my dad couldn't hold it in anymore and just now spilled the beans.. my grandmother is coming!!! I'm beyond excited and surprised! My abuelita is 92 years old and though she's doing well, her health is still very delicate. I've always been very close to my abuelita and though I was sad knowing she probably couldn't make it, I totally understood her health issues. But my dad says she's doing fine and she wants to come! And she's staying for 2 months!! Half that time she'll spend in a different city about 10 hours away where she's originally from but I'm still so excited! I miss her soo much!! Ahh I just had to share! :D

My dad also mentioned one of my aunts is practically paying for her plane ticket. I invited this aunt but haven't heard from her in years, and I still haven't heard from her since I sent her a wedding invite. My dad says it's almost like her gift to me which made me think... should I thank her in some way? We don't ever keep in touch and I feel strange thanking her for something she personally hasn't told me about. And for something that isn't solely for me, you know? Not sure how to deal with that, or even if I should... any thoughts?

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  • Awesome!! 92 - wow!! My grandma is 81 and it'll be very tough for her to come, but she's planning to. I won't be surprised if something happens though and she has to cancel. Hopefully not, though. My FI's grandma down in Peru is not coming, sadly. She is doing pretty well, but she isn't up for an 8 hour flight and I can't blame her (she is 88).

    As for the Aunt, is she coming to the wedding? I would think if she's flying your gma down, then she would be coming, but I couldn't tell from your post. I would say, if she doesn't come, send her a thank you card. If she does come, you could thank her for that in person. I don't know though... I'm sure someone else has more logically advice on this one than I do haha. I guess when in doubt, it's better to send a TY card than to not.
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  • That is so sweet!!! I'm so glad your grandma can come! As for your aunt, I agree with Bmore.  If she's coming to the wedding you can thank her in person, but if she's not, after the wedding you could just send her a thank you note. And definitely ask your dad what he thinks! He may say it's unnecessary, etc. HTH! 
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    I know! I was surprised that she'd be up for that long flight! The aunt isn't coming to the wedding. But that makes sense Bmore, "when in doubt.." Haha! Either way it's also a good idea to ask my dad. He knows her best so I'll see what he says! :D
  • Awwww that's awesome Nati that your grandmother can join you on your wedding day! I would say if aunt is there thank her in person about flying her down.  But if not you should send her a thank you note.

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  • Very sweet! I think I would send your aunt a separate thank you (if she sends a gift) just saying that you're sorry she couldn't make it but thank you very much for sending your grandma. Maybe she decided that since she wasn't going, she'd use the money that she would have spent on her trip for your grandma because she knew it would make you more happy to see your grandma.
  • What good news!!! I'm very happy you get to see your abuela :) I would send the aunt a thank you... I think it would mean a lot to her
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  • I agree with the PPs - send your aunt a thank you.  I'd mention that you missed her at the wedding too.
  • That is so great Nati!! so happy for you! :)
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  • That's so exciting, Nati!! :)
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  • awwww that's so amazing and sweet!!! and I agree, send the aunt a thank you.
  • Aww, that's great Nati!  What a wonderful surprise!!
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  • SOO EXCITING!!!!!!! 

    I would send your aunt a thank you note for sure =)  Sorry you couldn't make it to the wedding!  Thank you so much for helping abuelita get here for our special day! It means the world to me blah blah blah.... =)
  • Exciting. :o) Very awesome.

    I'd definitely send your aunt a thank you. Deserves to be recognized.
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