I've worked with a woman for the past 5 years. She's been with the same man for 9+ years. They've been engaged on and off 7 times. They've had children together but she always told me at work that she didn't love him and couldn't find a way to kick him out of the house. I met my DH and we got engaged within a year and a half. She always seemed happy for us. She was invited to our wedding. She always claimed she didn't receive an invite so we wound up sending her 3 invitations costing us $30+. She never RSVPd.
The day of my wedding she sent facebook wedding invites to everyone she knew (that was taking place in 4 weeks) saying they are finally ready to get married. My DH and I already had plans for that weekend since we usually have a pretty busy summer visiting out of state family.
I just got a text from her saying I'm a horrible person, a bad friend and everyone we work with talks bad about me. She was extremely upset that I didn't come to her wedding or bachelorette party since she came to my bachelorette party.
I just had to vent. I threw her a baby shower two years ago and have supported her in many ways when she wanted to leave her now husband. It's just sad when you think you have a close friend and they are anything but!