Okay so I dont know what to do. My fiance and I are getting married in June. This is our second marraige both. He is 52 and I am 41. We both have 3 children each from our previous relationship. My children live with us 16,13 and 7. His are all older 26, 24, and 17.
His family took much longer to warm up to the idea and some are still having a few 'feelings" about the whole thing. So we are getting married at my fathers lake property and have quite a few people coming. Its actually getting alot bigger than we first thought we would have. Originally I wanted something small and quaint.
Anyways, my step mom informs me that my sister is trying to plan a couples shower for us. I feel really silly having a shower at all. Especially a couples shower. I am supposed to gather names and address to invite. How do I let my sister know that I would rather not have a shower. I dont want to have everyone feel like we want all these gifts. Its just really something that feels awkward for me with this being our second and somewhat touchy issue for some of his family.
HELP........