My bachelorette party is this saturday. Yesterday my bridesmaid that has been planning my party informs me that she is not attending the whole party because she got tickets to go to a concert that night. FREE tickets, she did not have to pay for them and could have said no thanks to the person who gave them to her. We have been friends for 12 years.. she isn't my MOH but my MOH is seven months pregnant so the BM stepped in to plan this party. She offered, I did not ask her to. When she informed me that she was going to this concert (Kid Rock) over my party I got really upset. It hurt my feelings. She is the one I have been telling over and over how much I am looking forward to Saturday night. She knows how much it means to me. I finally told her today that it hurt my feelings that she is going to this concert. She acted like she didn't care and even called me a
B!#@H! I don't know what to do. I told her if the concert was that important not to even bother coming to the first part of the party. I will just get too upset if I see her. I don't expect her to apoligize, that's not like her. I don't want to lose her as a firend, but I also don't want to be treated the way she is treating me.
Oh and come to find out she has done nothing to "plan" the party besides sending out invitations. She said since they were my friends that she figured I would follow up with them. I'm planning a wedding... I don't have time to call 25 girls to see if they can come. I made the time to call them all today, so now I feel like I've really planned my own bachelorette party which makes me feel even worse. I just want to have fun.
Am I wrong for telling her not to even come? At this point I don't even want her in the wedding anymore. She's supposed to be the one helping me since out of my 4 BM two are 7 & 8 months pregnant and the other lives out of the state. I don't know what to do.