Every since we've started the process of buying this house, the wedding has become secondary to FI. We haven't closed on it yet though so we've done all we can do until we move in. Today is FI's last day off until we close next week. He told me he was going to do 2 or 3 wedding things today that are on his to-do list (only about 10 things which is nothing compared to mine). I get he worked hard all week and has to work this weekend but I just talked to him and asked what he was up to and he said he was on his way home from running and he was just going to shower and chill. I asked what about going to Men's Warehouse and he said he'd wait until I'm home. Why? We have plans tonight and I don't want to rush around to do errands when I get home. I worked all week too! I just know next week it's going to be all house stuff. So I asked him about a few other things he can do from his list at home and he just said maybe. WTF?! I had to hang up with him because I was annoyed. I sent him a text basically saying "I don't want to be a nag but these have to get done and next week I know you are going to want to focus on the house." And I got an "Ok" that's it so we'll see if anything gets done when I'm home.
Days off are important but my to do list for this weekend while he works is so long. I have a ton of wedding things to do plus we have to have our room/bathroom spotless since my parents have a house showing on Tuesday. Since FI works Sat, Sun, Mon that means all the cleaning is on me over the weekend. Why can't he just get these things done so I don't have to keep asking him to do them!? Wives get such a bad rep for being nags but maybe men should just not procrastinate.