Is it okay to have the bachelorette party a few weeks (or anytime) before the shower? I will be training for a half marathon the couple months before the wedding, and I don't want the weekend with my girls to mess up my training. So I suggested a date to my bridal party, but realized it was before the shower. The timing of the bachelorette party appears to work better with the bridal party's schedule too (as opposed to after the shower).
Thanks!