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• Loopyseven member

  

  December 2011

  How close are you to these friends of your FI's family.  Shower's are for your nearest and dearest. If you are close to them and want them at a shower ask the hostess what headcount she is comfortable with/can afford and if there's room invite them, if not, don't worry about it.  All guest lists should be dependant on the hostess's budgets.  They give you a headcount, you give them a corresponding guest list.

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• starree444 member

  

  December 2011

  Having three bridal showers seems excessive to me.
  
  Just saying.

  
  
  
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• AmethystMSU

  

  December 2011

  Three bridal showers is fine as long as the guest list doesn't overlap with the exception of mothers, sisters, and BMs. Loopy gave great advice.

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• andrea2473 member

  

  December 2011

  Three showers is NOT excessive as long as all of these showers were offered to you and you didn't ask for them.  I agree with most PP's that you should just see how many people each host is willing to accomodate and go from there.  Like Loopy said, it's not every female on the wedding guest list. Just your nearest and dearest.  Have fun!

  

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• cebrady89 member

  

  December 2011 edited January 2014

   

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• TurtlesAllTheWayDown member

  

  December 2011

  Whoever is hosting the shower for your FI's side of the family can decide if she wants to invite friends of the family. If not, oh well.
  
  Basically, each hostess decides who she wants to invite.

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