I am newly engaged for the second time at 51. I had a big wedding the first time, my FI didnt have one for his first marriage. We both have 2 kids, all over 17. Since this is our 2nd marriage for both of us, we want to have a nice beautiful and fun wedding with our family friends, but not go into debt over this. How can we have what we want on a budget? How soon should we start planning? We plan to get married 7/27/13, and we live in New Orleans. What kind of dress should I wear and so on. Dont know where to start?