My fiance and I are thinking about having our wedding at Esperanza Mansion on Keuka Lake in upstate NY. Has anyone gotten married here? If so please let me know if you recommend it and what the drawbacks were. Ideally we'd like to have the wedding party come for a few days ahead of time to spend time in the area and for the families to get to know eachother, so if you think this is a good place for that I'd love to get your opinions!